Do I Look Like I Wanna Collaborate: When To Respectfully Decline Their Offers
Happy Entrepreneur’s Day! Can you believe it’s almost time to eat turkey, put the Temptations Christmas CD on repeat and scramble to find all your business receipts from this year? With time flying by so quickly, you really should be rationing out your energy and focusing on finishing 2018 as strongly as you can. Unfortunately, that can mean saying no to certain partnerships. And fortunately, that can mean saying no to certain partnerships. Here are 5 legit reasons to back away from the table and work solo this season.
They’ve burned you several times.
You have to do a self-evaluation and ask yourself why people keep playing with you. Chances are, you keep letting them. Needless to say, enough is enough and any thought of collaborating with people who keep dropping the ball or prove themselves untrustworthy means you need to see a psychologist.
I bet there’s someone reading this and saying, “Everyone deserves a second chance. It’s the holidays!” Bah humbug! Reading is fundamental, Beloved. The subheading says you’ve been burned by this arsonist several times. You should forgive, but don’t get amnesia.
Back then, they didn’t want you. Now you’re hot…
In case you’re unsouthern that was a Mike Jones reference, but back to the lecture at hand. If you have attempted to collab with someone, and they left your dm’s on read, and ignored your emails, don’t be so quick to entertain their request to work together during this time.
It’s like when you get that “Hey big head” text. Johnny Come Lately saw your glow up from selling waist trainers to owning a gym, and now he’s just so hyped about hosting a meal prep class at your place. Chile please! Even if the partnership can be beneficial to you at some point, make them sweat before you say yes.
P.S. Everyone one has the right to work with whomever they choose to. Just because someone inquiries about future endeavors doesn’t mean you have to participate. Nonetheless, you do need to act as if someone raised you properly and respond to that inquiry, regardless of your decision to work with him or her.
I don’t do this on a first date…
Would you co-sign for a stranger to get a new car, even if you live in the same apartment building? Well, no one is thrilled about doing business with people they haven’t built a rapport with. If I collaborate with anyone, I want to make sure the person is walking the walk that matches their talk. Social media can create a great illusion and I’d rather get to know your level of expertise and integrity before I make a fool of my brand. PERIOD.
Booked and busy? Try stuck and stagnant.
The poster you purchased to create your 2018 vision board is somewhere just collecting dust. So with that being said, it’s not wise to partner up with anyone on anything!
If your website is outdated with old information, write some new copy or hire a professional like myself. Need to renew your certifications? What about remodeling your customer waiting area? Collaborating with entrepreneurs who are thriving while your business life is in shambles doesn’t camouflage the fact that your business life is in shambles!
Tiffany Haddish is the face of Groupon and Lawry’s Seasoning. Oprah has cauliflower pizza for sale. Mama Dee (yes, Scrappy’s mother from Love & Hip Hop Atlanta) has become an advocate for abuse and is starring in stage play next month. Why are you still playing with your brand goals?